My parents love my brother and see nothing wrong with anything he does. He has stolen from family. They paid it back. He physically abused me when we were kids. That’s just how brother’s are. You get the idea. I was praised for taking it like a man and for my school marks. My brother has recently knocked up his current girlfriend. She won’t get rid of it like she should. She is going to handcuff herself to the dead h****r that is my brother’s life for the next eighteen years. My parents asked me to help him out. I sent him pamphlets from Planned Parenthood. They were not amused. They told me to stop trying to get rid of their first grandchild and step up to help him with money or a place to stay.
They can’t let him stay with them because they live in a 55+ community with a vicious HOA. I said that I didn’t get an extra from Hillbilly Elegy pregnant and he was not getting help from me. They said that they would cut me out of their will. I laughed and pointed out that way did their taxes and I knew I already had money than the three of them put together. I said they were welcome to give my half of their stuff toy brother to help him. They said that they knew I had money and that’s why they asked. They said it would hurt their retirement to give him their money now. I wish I had
said tough s**t but I didn’t. I just said that he needed to get a regular job and pay for s**t like an adult. I said that he should buy some Plan B since this was the third woman he had impregnated just the first one stupid enough to want to add his DNA to the gene pool. My extended family keeps trying to get me to help. I offer to match whatever they give my brother. They never seem willing after that offer. But they do think I’m an a*e for putting my money over my brother and his growing family. My parents say the same thing but also call me insensitive for pointing out that they can’t afford to help him. I told them to unretire and give him their salaries. They didn’t like that suggestion either.
